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Post by Healthy Merking on Jul 8, 2009 9:07:54 GMT -5
it seems wise to try and relate to where people are coming from whenever possible
people are effects
recognize to the best of your ability the causes of what you see as the effect
if you find a person you do not care much for - recognize that you are seeing the effects of circumstances
people behave using learned patterns
for the most part - people do not recognize the power of the decision-making capacity
'personalities' largely consist of the actions we take when we are not conscious of our decisions
some people are jerks because their 'non-conscious' decisions were formed by other jerks
'he has a good heart' - even jerks make generous and loving decisions when they are forced to focus on making the decision
has anybody else's hatred melted into feeling of pity and lament?
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Post by Dr. D-Resperatation on Jul 10, 2009 6:10:49 GMT -5
You ever see the move "Toy Story"?
The whole way through Buz Lightyear was to me an odious character...
I couldnt suffer his unreal belief that he was a space traveler and not just a toy.
But in the end, he deals with the sadness of being wrong about his true identity, and this braught me to comppassion for him, and even though I didnt want to, I felt for him.
The conclusion that I draw is that what I didnt like about him was his over abundent heart that refused to recongnize reality limitations.
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Mostly people get hated on when they dont know how to act.
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Post by .-<(B.1.6.6.E.R.)>-. on Jul 10, 2009 9:20:10 GMT -5
fake it until you make it
the song says "i Believe i can fly"
Healthy Merking - are you apart of these people ?
or are you a person stepping back looking at these people shaking your head saying "these people"
we are all jerks calling other jerks, jerks
who in this world hasn't been called a jerk by some other jerk ?
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Post by Healthy Merking on Jul 10, 2009 9:54:02 GMT -5
i dont think its possible for a person to reasonably separate oneself entirely from any group they are a part of
i am a person that people live with
in the same group
conscious of jerks, the possibility that i am a jerk, trying not to be a jerk
everybody has distinguishing features
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Post by .-<(B.1.6.6.E.R.)>-. on Jul 10, 2009 10:59:21 GMT -5
the difference is possibly that i realize that i'm a jerk and others don't realize that they are jerks
and a part of saving the world is getting people to realize that they are jerks - and that they are not alone
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Post by Healthy Merking on Jul 10, 2009 14:41:54 GMT -5
the difference is possibly that i realize that i'm a jerk and others don't realize that they are jerks and a part of saving the world is getting people to realize that they are jerks - and that they are not alone i think that i could not say it any better its a big jerk-fest |
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Post by CIVILISON on Jul 14, 2009 20:49:27 GMT -5
it seems wise to try and relate to where people are coming from whenever possible people are effects recognize to the best of your ability the causes of what you see as the effect if you find a person you do not care much for - recognize that you are seeing the effects of circumstances people behave using learned patterns for the most part - people do not recognize the power of the decision-making capacity 'personalities' largely consist of the actions we take when we are not conscious of our decisions some people are jerks because their 'non-conscious' decisions were formed by other jerks 'he has a good heart' - even jerks make generous and loving decisions when they are forced to focus on making the decision has anybody else's hatred melted into feeling of pity and lament? I hear you... as always there is another side to what you're saying. that effect while in itself could be non-beneficial to the experiencer it is also laid out in the grand scheme of your multi-layered organism and evolution of spiritual pursuits. non-conscious decisions formed by other negative/evil people are exactly that non-conscious just as well as the mentally uplifting energies lay subconscious. the battle of good and evil in life is the battle over our behavior meaning words and actions which are solidifications of divinity within us and how we decide to verbally and actively express ourselves. these subconscious programs are there for us to break them and heal self. as the Buddhists and other religions say love is suffering. some good observations tho brother |
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